How can I get the social intelligence? Five strategies to get the social intelligence.
Maybe you have heard about social intelligence and maybe not, but anyway I’m sure that you didn’t hear about how to get this life changing skill.
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Here is a five ways to get the social intelligence:
FIRST:Social engagement
It is the most important one because when you are able to engage with your community then you going to meet many people either friends, friends of your friends or even the workers in your job site, so you will be able to see many personalities and will be able to recognize them easily. That will help you to know how to treat them.
SECOND:Being an active listener
Listening is in the top of most important skills that build your personality and improve your communication and help you to get know the talking person, and not any type of listen it’s just the active one which means you listen by your brain and analyze every single word that you’ve heard. Always try to listen to others carefully and try not to interrupt them until you ensure that you got the speech.
THIRD:Being a personalities analyst
You know by active listening that mentioned above you can easily be a personalities analyst , try to hear the speaker well and scan his attitude and read his body language, you going to see yourself automatically put that person in a specific personality.
FORTH:Don’t believe everything
To increase your social intelligence you shouldn’t believe everything, you should always get step back before judging anyone and believe his words. Because not all the talkers are honest and not all are liars.
FIVE:Vocals
You know that the vocals are so important to reflect your personality?
Try to alert your voice depending on the situation, try to show the person who you talk with,you have the confidence and able to read his thoughts and know everything even in real you don’t, but you are able by your voice during the conversation .
